Well, there she is again, batting her eye lashes trying to invade your thoughts.
Miss Prissy, Little Pain In The Bottom, Green Eyed Monster.
She can be a pesky monster that likes to mess with your self esteem, make you question your talent and direction. She even has a clever knack of skewing reality and reeking havoc on your state of mind.
Don't let her do it to you. Tell her to be on her merry way and bother someone else because you have better things to do than spend time with her!
We've all been there and it's something we're not proud of admitting. But let's face it , this field gives one ample opportunities to get a little green. I'm a freelance children's book illustrator because ....I want to illustrate children's books. When one of my ever so talented friends gets that "dream assignment" or achieves the goal that I have set for myself yet haven't quite reached...sure it affects me.
But you know what? I don't think "envy" is really the appropriate label for this feeling. I think we're simply experiencing, yearning. A yearning because we too want to be a success at what what we do.
So how do I handle Miss Prissy, Little Pain In The Bottom,Green Eyed Monster?
*Well, first I take a soak in a hot bath and sulk.
*Then,I try to remind myself that we all have a purpose in this world and since I truly feel like this career is where I belong...then the opportunities will come...when it's time.
*And then I try to focus on what I have achieved so far and count my blessings because there are many.
*Then I scold myself for a few minutes when I realize that I should be more grateful and stop comparing myself to others.
*And finally, I work on a plan. What can I work on next? What can I do today to get one step closer towards my goal?
Yes, Miss Prissy ,Little Pain In The Bottom ,Green Eyed Monster I see you there batting your eyelashes at me. Go on now,scoot,I have work to do.
=o)
Well said, Roz! What a great take on "Monster"! And your cute, illustrated monster makes sense, too, because, the "envy monster" does come across as not so dangerous. Thanks for the lesson!
Posted by: paula | March 28, 2006 at 07:44 PM
You have a very cute style...and very time consuming, since you do it by sewing. Very nice.
Posted by: Bron Smith | March 28, 2006 at 10:49 PM
You are very inspiring, Roz. I love how you hit the nail on the head every time. Thanks for keeping me going!
Posted by: garth | March 29, 2006 at 06:32 AM
and here I sit thinking, gosh, Roz is moving along so quickly, I need to step it up!
Posted by: Laura | March 29, 2006 at 06:35 AM
Very nice! Makes me want to start digging around in my sewing box! I love all the little details!
Posted by: Sweet pea | March 29, 2006 at 09:32 AM
Roz, I love your work. No need for a green monster for you! Although I think we all feel like this at one time or another - (and I thought I was the only one)!
Your purple monster is very cute. I love the texture in her body created by the stiches. Simply wonderful!
Posted by: Wee Cottage | March 29, 2006 at 10:19 AM
great name and image for that annoying, self-deafeating little monster. so glad you shared this, now i feel a bit better about feeling so darn jealous sometimes.
Posted by: Courtney | March 29, 2006 at 12:10 PM
Love your little green eyed monster and your words were just what I needed at the moment. Thanks for sharing!
Posted by: Marieke | March 29, 2006 at 01:12 PM
i was excited while going to your site to see what kind of monster you have created and this green eyed monster is adorable. at least it's only her body who's not green and you have made a face that can really describe her being a little pain in the bottom.
guilty! i sometimes use the word envious in my comments and yes it is true it's more of yearning. anyway, i always try my best not to forget to count my blessings everyday and sing my praises to God.
nice post! have a nice day, too!
Posted by: I S A Y | March 29, 2006 at 01:30 PM
Rozzie - it is SO WONDERFUL how you share your struggles and challenges so transparently with all of us! What a blessing to be able to come by your site and read about myself and see that I am not alone :o) Your inspiration has been such a constant for me - thanks for all you share with all of us. And my oh my, your felt art is off-the-charts cute and amazing! Love love love it!! Keep it up girl - you're a real blessing!!
Posted by: Becky | March 29, 2006 at 02:07 PM
Ha ha! Well your little monster is cute and I think we can all relate. Sounds like you handle it very well. I think you are amazing and do amazing work Roz. Keep it up.
Posted by: Holly | March 29, 2006 at 03:37 PM
ya know i have met Miss Prissy and she is a pain in my tush!!! Great work as always!!!
Posted by: valgalart | March 29, 2006 at 03:46 PM
what a happy monster ! very cute!!
Posted by: nuray-Tulipland | March 29, 2006 at 06:57 PM
A monster with a message, a good message too. Cleverly done!
Posted by: Michelle | March 29, 2006 at 09:07 PM
I, too- am battling Miss Prissy these days. A good hot bath does help. She's really cute though (and stylish!)
Posted by: chickengirl | April 02, 2006 at 03:07 PM
Thanks so much everyone, I'm glad you liked the post. Here's to Miss priss stomping everywhere!
Posted by: rozzie | April 03, 2006 at 08:51 PM
Roz,
This monster is absolutely adorable and I love the stitching-it adds such a unique touch. You musn't compare yourself to others, you are one of a kind, a true gem and very very talented. Let that be your guide every day. Remember, God doesn't create mistakes! :)
Thank you for your lovely comments and for never ending support and friendship!
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